Looking back on my 20 years in oral and maxillofacial surgery, I am struck by how much this journey has taught me- not just about dentistry, but about people, resilience, and community. When I first opened Queens Blvd Oral Surgery, my focus was on providing high-quality surgical care. Over time, I realized that being an oral surgeon is about far more than performing procedures. It is about understanding patients, building trust, and making a meaningful difference in their lives.
The Human Side of Oral Surgery
One of the most important lessons I have learned is that every patient is unique. Behind every smile is a story, a concern, or a fear. I have treated young adults anxious about their first wisdom teeth extraction, parents worried about their children’s dental health, and adults who have delayed care because of financial or emotional barriers. Listening carefully and approaching each case with empathy is just as important as technical skill.
Over the years, I have seen how small gestures can make a big difference. Taking the time to explain procedures in plain language, answering questions patiently, and checking in after surgery helps patients feel safe and cared for. Building this kind of trust not only improves outcomes, but also strengthens the doctor-patient relationship, which I consider the heart of my work.
Advancements in Technology and Techniques
Oral surgery has evolved tremendously in the past two decades. When I began my career, many procedures were more invasive, and recovery could be longer and more uncomfortable. Today, advances in imaging, anesthesia, and surgical techniques allow for more precise, less invasive procedures. Technology such as 3D imaging and digital planning has made it possible to anticipate challenges before surgery and provide better results for patients.
Embracing these innovations has been one of the most rewarding parts of my career. It has allowed me to improve patient experiences, reduce complications, and deliver care that meets the highest standards. However, technology is only a tool. What truly makes the difference is combining these advances with personalized attention and careful planning for each patient.
Lessons About Patience and Persistence
Oral surgery teaches patience in many ways. Recovery does not happen overnight, and every patient heals differently. I have learned to set realistic expectations, guide patients through the healing process, and celebrate milestones with them. Whether it is a successful dental implant placement, a wisdom tooth extraction with minimal discomfort, or a complex jaw reconstruction, the goal is always a smooth recovery and lasting results.
Persistence is another lesson that applies not just to surgery, but to life. Running multiple practices, training residents, and staying current with new techniques requires dedication and a commitment to lifelong learning. Challenges are inevitable, but facing them with focus and integrity leads to growth and better care for patients.
Community and Connection
Beyond the operating room, my work has reinforced the importance of community. Over the years, I have been fortunate to serve patients in Forest Hills, Jamaica Estates, and beyond, building relationships with families and neighbors. Being part of a community means more than providing care; it means being approachable, supportive, and involved in the lives of those you serve.
I have also learned that mentorship is a powerful part of giving back. Training young surgeons, sharing knowledge, and helping the next generation of oral surgeons grow in skill and confidence has been incredibly fulfilling. Helping someone become a competent and compassionate professional is as rewarding as helping a patient recover from surgery.
Personal Reflections
After 20 years, I still find great satisfaction in what I do. Oral surgery is challenging, but it is deeply rewarding. Every day offers the opportunity to improve someone’s quality of life, restore confidence, and sometimes even change the course of a patient’s health. The trust my patients place in me is something I take very seriously.
I have also realized that balance is essential. Spending time with my family, following my favorite sports teams, and maintaining personal interests help me recharge and show up fully for my patients. The lessons I have learned professionally are mirrored in my personal life: patience, empathy, and persistence are key to success and fulfillment.
Looking Ahead
The past two decades have shaped my approach to oral surgery, patient care, and life itself. As I look forward, my focus remains on providing exceptional care, embracing new techniques, and strengthening connections within the community. I am excited to continue helping patients achieve healthy, confident smiles while mentoring the next generation of oral surgeons.
Ultimately, the most meaningful part of my career is not the procedures I perform or the technologies I use. It is the people I have met, the lives I have touched, and the trust I have earned. After 20 years in oral surgery, I can say that this work is about more than teeth and jaws. It is about care, compassion, and making a lasting impact- one patient at a time.